When Love Feels Like Home — or Like Running

A look at how our earliest relationships quietly shape the way we love as adults The Day Amaka Cried in the Parking Lot Amaka had been married to Tunde for…

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When Narcissistic Control Stops Working: The Psychology of Emotional Detachment

When Narcissistic Control Stops Working: The Psychology of Emotional Detachment A common clinical question in working with individuals who have experienced narcissistic abuse is this: *What disrupts the narcissistic dynamic…

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HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA SHAPES WHO WE MARRY (AND WHY IT FEELS FAMILIAR)

HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA SHAPES WHO WE MARRY (AND WHY IT FEELS FAMILIAR) There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that comes with looking at your partner across the breakfast table and…

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HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA SHAPES WHO WE MARRY (AND WHY IT FEELS FAMILIAR)

HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA SHAPES WHO WE MARRY (AND WHY IT FEELS FAMILIAR) There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that comes with looking at your partner across the breakfast table and…

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HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA SHAPES WHO WE MARRY (AND WHY IT FEELS FAMILIAR)

HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA SHAPES WHO WE MARRY (AND WHY IT FEELS FAMILIAR) There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that comes with looking at your partner across the breakfast table and…

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HOW NEGATIVE FAMILY PATTERNS UNCONSCIOUSLY AFFECT YOUR MARRIAGE

HOW NEGATIVE FAMILY PATTERNS UNCONSCIOUSLY AFFECT YOUR MARRIAGE And How to Identify and Heal Them Many marital conflicts are not really about the present moment. They are echoes from the…

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Why Long-Term Narcissistic Relationships Are So Hard to Leave.

Why Long-Term Narcissistic Relationships Are So Hard to Leave. Many people remain in abusive marriages, nit because they are good people, but because they have subconsciously adpted to the behaviours…

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